In Part I, the manager says to Gregor’s family, “We businessmen – fortunately or unfortunately, whichever you prefer – very often simply have to overcome a slight indisposition for business reasons.”
How might this manager’s attitude affect Gregor’s attitude towards himself and his work? Are there times in your own life when you might need to ignore personal discomforts? In your opinion, is this a “fortunate” attitude to have, or is it “unfortunate”?
The way this manager’s attitude may
affect Gregor’s attitude towards himself and his work is Gregor may come the
realization that he went as far as being committed to a job that requires one
hundred percent dedication, as well as social isolation, in order to provide
for his family that he should not let anything stop him now. Not even becoming
a bug should get in the way, or else the long days of being a travel salesmen
and being socially isolated from the world would have all been for nothing.
Many times in our lives, we are
going to encounter situations where we are going to have to ignore our own personal
discomforts. Common situations include times when we encounter a person that we
find attractive. Many times, that person have a hobby or like to do something
that we ourselves do not like to do because of our personal discomforts, such
as trying something new or dancing. However, in order to get closer to that
person and have a good time, we have to ignore these personal discomforts and
try something new because nobody wants to stop doing anything they love to do.
In my opinion, this is a fortunate
attitude to have because, more often than not, people are happy that they ignored
their personal discomforts and tried something new because it helped them grow
as a person. Other times, this type of attitude is beneficial. When dealing
with work, you receive more money in each check. In a social sense, you will
meet new people and grow as a person.
I agree with what you are trying to say about getting closer to someone. It can't always be about you and it would be best if you took others into account when you try to make plans with someone. You can definitely grow as a person if you get out of your comfort zone once in a while.
ReplyDeleteI agree on the point that it should not be about you when trying to get to know other people. One thing that concerns me in Gerardo's writing is that he makes it seem like you should always ignore your comfort level. I don't think that it is a very smart strategy for life.
DeleteMarcin. You are right. Thank you for your opinion and all that you are. You are a gentleman and a scholar. And you have a heart of gold
DeleteGerardo. I can't even begin to fathom how wrong you are. There is no reason to be this wrong
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